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How might it affect your friendships? The sex was clumsy and painful and a couple of times I wondered what the hell I was doing. I am aware that I need outlets for emotional and physical expression other than those that I can gain through my partner and family. Talk to your spouse openly about whether monogamy suits you both.

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It damaged my self-esteem and made me feel ashamed, which I still feel today and will carry with me for the rest of my life. Stress can increase, and the grass may not seem so green.

Thinkinng once you get into the habit, it does get easier. Anon I'm 37 and atfair married now. And right now it's bad. There is a very clear line that neither one of us crosses physical with anyone else. They are also important to me in my nine-year affair with Michael. Your family will probably eventually find out, and even if not, the guilt could eat you alive. Anon I cannot say I have never fantasized about a extra-martial romance.

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It's almost like temporary insanity. Obviously, the degree of pain that an affair causes a spouse varies widely and depends on many factors, but I would go very slowly here.

So my advice is to think very carefully about what you'll do if you find yourself falling in love with the hvaing man. An affair is the most self-centered thing one can do to a family. The nice part about your life is you get to live it your way. As told to Joan McFadden Topics. After over a decade of a perfect, but perhaps too comfortable marriage, I found myself seriously considering the same thing.

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It took another six months of discussion and Thinklng before the affair started. At the very least, I'd recommend exhausting all straightforward avenues to get what you want first. Even if your intentions are not to leave your spouse and your intentions are really not to have an affair, your havkng for that person may quickly develop to the point where you lose all your rational thinking.

Who else might support or wisely advice you?

It ''just happened''--only once. You made a commitment for good times and bad.

I am not interested in moralizing, just an of experience. I wasn't particularly attracted to him but I liked him, and he agreed.

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I've been helping individuals and couples gain clarity with their relationships for many years. Can you walk away from the affair if things start getting serious? But I know the boundaries and Dalrymple women fucking can say having two parents who BOTH had affairs it is incredibly destructive havjng the children not to mention the marriage. You don't have the guts to ask for a divorce.

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Feeling attractive to someone is exhilarating. In the earlier one yikes! You can see a counselor alone to deal with why you are so unhappy and unfulfilled. Ask yourself: why is this happening now? We started talking dirty.

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We are still together, very much in love, and perhaps even closer as a result, but none of the silver linings have been worth the pain, self-doubt, disillusionment, and despair caused by my exciting self-indulgence. Eventually my partner discovered my unfaithfulness and was devastated.

But I think if I had just been really honest about how I was feeling that I might have gotten the same. I'm realizing I have a lot of anger issues afdair my husband that I'm going to have to work out if we're going to move forward.

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It's not that she took no responsibility at all for cheating on her husband, but she definitely saw the affair as something that happened to her not as something she made happen. Jun 7, Showtime An affair can feel exciting and seductive. You say in your avfair ''I don't want to break up my family or leave my husband''.